Spirit Mediumship & Psychic Abilites
A medium is able to intuit loved ones in spirit form and act as medium between those who are living and those who have passed. A spirit medium can communicate and provide messages to assist with grief, healing, and closure.
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Mediumship is facilitated through the vibration of love. For some spirits it is easy to come through, and for others it can be more difficult. This is because, when spirits bring their vibration down to the earthly plane, spirits need to adjust their vibration to match ours. This can be tricky and sometimes spirits need to practice and watch how other spirits do it. This is one of the reasons why some spirits come through easily, and some not at all. There is also resistance for some spirits to come forward if they are shy, didn’t express themselves well when they were in human form, or processing their own grief. Often, they do not want to upset their loved ones, because they do not want it to be communicated that they are saddened by their passing. For this reason, some recently passed spirits will not come forward until after they have begun their own healing. They certainly need to shift through their own grieving processing, just like we do here on earth.
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How Do Spirits Communicate With Us?
When spirits do come forward, they will communicate with the medium in many ways, depending on the clair or clairs that is most developed in the medium; clairaudience (hearing voices), clairvoyance (seeing images), clairsentience (recognising feelings), and claircognizance (knowing).
Here's more information of the clairs.
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A medium may use one of or all of his or her clairs. Spirits communicate with mediums by using the experiences and memories of the medium to create meaning. This is why having a ‘conversation’ with a spirit can be a little confusing and need a little detective work. Spirits use symbols which they mentally offer to the medium, creating meaning for the client. Sometimes this is woven with smells and tastes and other types of intuition. I have learnt over the years that spirits have the same personality when they pass, as when they lived. I have also discovered that spirits go through their own healing process when they pass, often with the help of their guides and loved ones in spirit who passed before they did. Their perception has often shifted – this always makes me laugh. Especially when I have older gentlemen come through in spirit form who truly thought that all mediumship and psychic phenomena was a hoax when they were living. I always smile when these spirits come through. There is usually a sense of ‘if I only I knew then when I know now’.
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Can Mediumship Abilties Be Learnt?
Mediumship can be learnt and developed, but it is more-often a skill that someone is born with. Often psychic and mediumship abilities come through a family line. There are many people who were born with this gift but unconsciously closed their ability as they grew older because they were not able to rationalize what they were experiencing, especially as it is not often a shared experienced that is easily spoken about. If a person with mediumship and psychic abilities experiences something which scares them, this often shuts down their abilities. It can be re-opened but it often takes time to trust the ability and develop a strong relationship with it. When I mentor people, I often help them to develop their mediumship abilities.
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My Soul Sessions - Spirit Mediumship
During my soul sessions with clients, I often use my mediumship abilities to help my clients connect with loved ones. This not only offers healing to my clients, but also to the spirits present. I have found that our healing is their healing, and their healing is our healing. Offering this service is one that evokes a lot of peace and joy. These sessions can be very emotional. I often cry with my clients, especially when love comes through strongly. This can be very intense, equally beautiful. My sessions are a combination of healing, spiritual guidance, shamanic healing and mediumship (where relevant). With this combination I really am able to offer my clients so much love, and really provide what they need. Admittedly sometimes I interpret things incorrectly, but I am very open, inviting my clients to challenge what I am intuiting if they do not feel I am following the right thread. Admittedly, this very seldom happens.
My Boundaries - Spirit Mediumship
I have clear boundaries as a medium. I only work with spirits who my grandfather (in spirit form) allows to communicate with me. My grandfather acts like a bouncer and a bodyguard for me, he checks out the spirits before he lets them talk to me. Often checking that they have loving intentions. He has never allowed a spirit to communicate with me that could cause suffering to me or my clients. For this, I am extremely grateful. When he was living, he worked in the military. Honestly, he looks quite scary, stoic, and strong. He never really talks to me, as when he was living, he was also a man of few words. But I know he loves me, and I love him very much too.
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I also have boundaries around how I want spirit to communicate with me. For many mediums, they often re-experience the death of the spirit who comes forward in some way. For me, I have clearly said that I do not want to experience this in my body or being. Often mediums do this for validation, but I find it too painful emotionally, so I have put up boundaries around this. The last time I re-experienced a death, it was a drowning. Re-experiencing death, albeit often a loving death, is not something that I enjoy or feel is necessary. There is a gorgeous and famous medium who has a show on Netflix by the name of Tyler Henry. Tyler re-experiences deaths and every time I watch this, my heart breaks for him. I don’t think it’s kind to him or healthy for him psychically, seems a little sacrificial to me, even though it quickly validates his abilities and communication.
Many spirits have told me that they want their loved ones to know that they are always around them, guiding them and sending them signs. They also really long to stay connected to their loved ones on earth and are often asking my clients to talk to them, and about them often. This brings them close. It helps with their healing process. Sometimes those living try to push away their grief by ignoring it and pushing away memories of their loved one who has passed. This only perpetuates suffering for both and living and deceased.
Spirits are always telling people that they are no longer suffering, and that they have reconnected with others. They often speak about feeling free from pain, from being proud of their loved ones and sometimes, they offer apologies for their behavior on earth if it has caused hurt. Often spirits will talk about the pets that they are reacquainted with, with places they have been and things they have experienced. They are always showing love and pride. They are often sharing their knowledge, and sometimes there is a sense of ‘I told you so’, offered in a humorous way. Many times, I have heard spirits encourage loved ones to have more fun, experience more joy and reconnect with laughter.
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